Thursday, June 23, 2016

The Perfect Twirl


There was a day that we found this long sleeve t-shirt on sale in a big department store. My hubby and I then found other winter clothes that were also on sale. We started to load up our shopping buggy with sweaters, jackets, and long sleeve shirts for our boys and workers. Then we headed over to the girl’s department where we found all kinds of pretty, shiny, sparkly, lacy, and fluffy girl clothes.

It was the first time I bought a ballerina style dress for two of my girls, and fancy shiny dresses for three of my girls with lace crochet cardigans to match. We even bought them gloves. My hubby and I actually bought two dresses with multiple layers of tulle skirts. We all loved it so much! The moment our two youngest girls twirled in their brand new dresses was perfect. 

I had shopped many times for t-shirts and girl clothes in Pep or at the outside market, but never for fancy dresses. The minute I saw a fluffy skirted dress, I knew I could buy that dress for one of my girls. It was a moment I had been waiting for all my life.  I had always dreamed of the moment that I would buy a fancy dress for my little girl, and I  would see her twirl in her first ballerina skirt. I had imagined a tinier tulle skirt – maybe for a baby girl. For some reason, probably the sparse shopping available in Chimoio, I had never seen these type of fluffy dresses our girls size until that day in the department store in Colorado. There are more shops in Colorado, and that was the first day I had noticed a pretty, fluffy dress just Julieta’s size, and Margarida’s size.  There were three more fancy, shiny dresses that matched perfectly with these sweet little cardigans.

All five of our beautiful girls sparkled and shined in their fancy dresses. They curtsied, and danced. They sat so politely at our friend’s restaurant. It was such a beautiful day. We loved spending special time with the girls. There was something magical about being dressed up in fancy clothes and going on an unforgettable lunch date. We spent the afternoon with the girls. They used our phone to take a bunch of pictures and videos dancing, singing, and twirling in their dresses.  

It was the perfect lunch date with our daughters, and the perfect dresses, and the perfect twirls.

Lots of love,

Missionary Momma Mia

Sunday, June 5, 2016

a little jetlag and a lot of love

I was thrilled when Joao and I realized that we could sleep in a bit longer. Our dear missionary friend and great helper was knocking at our door early. We checked the time on our American phone. The time had changed when we were in South Africa when it connected to some cell phone service through roaming. So, when our friend arrived and knocked to see if we were ready to head to the center for a special time with the children to pass out gifts and then celebrate Children’s day with a special chicken and refrescos meal, we noticed she had arrived early. We knew she would make herself at home with some coffee or water while she waited. So we happily rolled over to catch a little more shuteye.

We waited about twenty minutes after our phone alarm went off at what we thought was 8 am, then we finally got dressed for the day, washed up and brushed our teeth before heading to the breakfast table where our lovely friend sat waiting patiently for us. My hubby said ….7:40 isn’t 9. You told us you would be here at 9. She chuckled kindly and said ,“But it wasn’t 9. Sorry I was a little bit late getting here at 9:15. You must have been tired….” she went on talking while my husband and I exclaimed, “How could you have gotten here at 9:15? Our phone said 7:40?” Our Mozambican pastor said, “Look Baba,” pointing to the battery powered clock in our living room, “it is ten to 11. I think the time on your phone is wrong.” He is so kind and gentle not wanting to embarrass us by telling us ‘I think’ and maybe our phone is telling us the wrong time. It’s pretty obvious that we were wrong as our phone had lost track of time since it couldn’t connect to any roaming cell phone service in Mozambique.  

“Ohhhhh Sorry!!!!” we said in unison. We all had a chuckle after we said our robust apologies for having our friends and pastor wait for us while we continued to sleep. They all said not to worry, that we must have needed the rest because of our jet lag. They are all so generous. Our hearts are melty at how great a godly connection we have with our International Mozambican family. They graciously moved the time to give the children presents to after lunch and everything worked out fabulously!
We greeted each one of the children with hugs and more hugs. There’re so sweet. Oh my goodness, how I had missed them. There is nothing like that big bear hug from our girls, and shy sweet hugs from our adolescent boys. Their culture doesn’t normally allow big boys to have hugs, but I tell them it’s great to get hugs from your parents at any age. They’ve seen my parents hugging me and Joao, so they accept it as our show of parental affection as they hug us in return.

We all sang songs and danced vibrantly to African praise songs in dialect and Portuguese. Then my hubby and I shared about our time overseas and how the green card process for Baba is going to take a lot longer time than we thought, and Mae (that’s me) is in University, but we will keep coming back during the process and trust Papa God to keep sending mommas and Pappas to oversee their care while we are away. Then we all prayed together before a special extra Children’s Day lunch.  The children had already celebrated a special meal and received gifts of new flip-flops and long pants on June 1 for Children’s Day. On Saturday, because my hubby and I couldn’t celebrate with them until the Saturday after we arrived on June 4th, the children had a second special meal and had a precious time of giving out brand new clothes from America.

They had an abundantly blessed week with TWO children’s day celebrations!

We love to show them Papa God’s lavish love, so we told them that sometimes in Papa God’s family we have abundant love and gifts and food!!!! They laughed and laughed as they ate their mountain of rice with potatoes and chicken, and drank as much coke as they wanted.

It’s such a special meal because the children hadn’t had a chicken meal since Christmas. It’s one of their favorites, and we love to celebrate by giving them their favorite!!!

Thank you to everyone who is giving and praying so that we can be here! Your generous love that you lavish on us and the kids is such a fragrant offering to Papa God!!!!!We are blessed to see our Mozambican family after such a long time away. We definitely miss our three sons by birth, who are staying with their grandparents while we travel, but we believe they will be able to come with us next time. It’s so hard for them to wait to see their Mozambican brothers who have grown up and two of them are in university, and have built houses on their own property. Their other Mozambican brothers are finishing up high school and working on plans to build houses on the land that we purchased for them. We are so proud of them!!!! Everyone here is growing up, and they are so mature!!!! They spent their energy this morning in dance as we all worship together. They pray such heart felt prayers for their South African grandparents who are going on a trip to visit family in South Africa. They are so sincere in their love for Jesus and his kids! Oh it’s wonderful to be back in praise and worship, and prayer and fellowship with our beautiful children and friends! The presence of Holy Spirit during our little church service was sooooo sweet! We love you God!!!

We are so thankful to sweet Jesus for such a gift of this time with our Mozambican family. Please keep praying for us to have favor, blessings, heavenly wisdom and open doors, as we have a short time to get a lot of work accomplished and catch up on as many hugs as possible!

Lots of love,

Missionary Momma Mia